Ways to Engage
Choose your own adventure. Increasing levels of engagement, increased opportunities to match.
Tier I: tsysm Member
For the ones that are ready for love and open to being the “someone” that our tsysm Private Client should meet.
What’s Included?
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Rather than being a place where one hopes to meet their person, our events will center us getting to know you. The more our team is able to connect with you, the more intentional we’ll be in pairing you with a thoughtful and solid match.
While we see value in bringing together likeminded singles with the shared goal of partnership, we want this service to feel different than just any Friday night out.
We look forward to getting to know you and getting to say that “there’s someone you should meet.”
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As a tsysm Member, you are invited to complete an application to be in our tsysm Database. This database is the pool we’ll pull from to match our tsysm Private Clients.
Tier I: tsysm Member
Sign up via the member form below
Tier II: tsysm Insider
For the ones that want to commit to a deeper level of engagement. More access, more resources, more opportunities for connection.
(Annual subscription)
What’s Included?
Access to everything in Tier I +
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As a tsysm Insider, you’ll have access to more intimate events like
Curated dinner parties
Panels
Fireside chats
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This offering centers the internal work that supports healthier relating to others. It’s for those seeking personal development as it connects to their romantic life and relationships generally.
This programming includes access to:
One on one coaching
Small groups
Workshops on topics such as:
Boundary Setting
Healthy communication
Feedback and Accountability
Recognizing and Moving through Triggers
For the ones that want to commit to a deeper level of engagement. More access, more resources, more opportunities for connection.
(Annual Subscription)
What’s Included?
An invitation to all community events and mixers
Access to our tsysm Database
Insiders only events like
Curated dinner parties
Panels
Fireside chats
Access to our tsysm Internally programming including
One on one coaching
Small group series
Workshops on topics such as:
Boundary Setting
Healthy communication
Feedback and Accountability
Recognizing and Moving through Triggers
Tier III: tsysm Private Client
For the ones ready to invest in being personally matched. This tier requires a deeper emotional, financial, and time commitment as it is a full service match making program.
What’s Included?
Access to everything in Tier II +
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Initial assessment call with your dedicated matchmaker
Personalized matches (each potential match is video screened prior to connection)
Post-date debriefs including formalized, bi-directional feedback
One on one coaching package
Option to add on additional sessions
Access to our referral system
Therapists
Relationship Coaches
Stylists
Personal Trainers
Financial Advisors
Etc.
Note: Following application approval, clients will be granted access to purchase the match making package.
Note: Following application approval, clients will be granted access to purchase.
For the ones ready to invest in being personally matched. This tier requires a deeper emotional, financial, and time commitment as it is a full service match making program.
What’s Included?
Access to everything in Tier II +
12 Month Complete Match Making Program:
Initial assessment call(s)
Personalized matches
Post-date debriefs
One on one coaching package
Option to add on additional sessions
Access to our referral system
Therapists
Stylists
Financial advisors
Etc.
Frequently Asked Questions
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We believe that no one should be priced out of love. As a result, we center accessibility in three intentional ways:
1. We offer various levels of engagement. While there is a financial investment for Tiers II and III, Tier I (tsysm Member) is completely cost free.
All tsysm Members receive our newsletter which provides first access to our community events. It also offers access to our tsysm Database where we pull all potential matches for our tsysm Private Clients.
2. Our services are worth every penny, but we believe that no penny should break the bank. As a result, we offer a no questions asked sliding scale for our match making services. This means that if our full fee is out of budget, applicants can take advantage of our additional reduced rate options while receiving the same service and level of care.
3. We offer the option of a 3 month payment plan for all tsysm Private Clients, regardless of which rate they select.
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We have a mission to promote healthier relationships overall. While the key focus is on healthy matches, we also want to encourage healthy relationships with ourselves. We lean on our expertise in relational dynamics and mental health in order to offer access to social-emotional education and support for our tsysm community.
The goal of our events is not for you to meet your match. Surprising right?
Rather than being a place where one hopes to meet their person, our events will center us getting to know you. The more our team is able to connect with you and put a face and personality to your database application, the more opportunities we have to thoughtfully match you.
While we see value in bringing together likeminded singles with the shared goal of partnership, we want this service to feel like more than just any Friday night out.
We look forward to getting to know you and are excited at the chance to tell you “there’s someone you should meet.”
We center Blackness across gender and sexuality because we love us and truly believe that everyone should have the opportunity to hear “there’s someone you should meet.”
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As much as we’d like to immediately serve everyone, it wouldn’t be honest to say that we can meet the need of all of NYC, so we’re starting with our most immediate field of reach. We feel protective of our community and want to do this right because that’s what you all deserve. As we grow, we hope to expand our age range as we truly believe There’s Someone You Should Meet.
Thank you for your interest. Please stay tuned because there’s more to come!
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Right now, we are focused on specifically serving those in the NYC area. We are starting with our most immediate field of reach and as we grow, hope to expand to other cities and states.
Thank you for your interest. Please stay tuned because there’s more to come!
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Rather than being a place where one hopes to meet their person, our events will center us getting to know you. The more our team is able to connect with you and put a face and personality to your database application, the more opportunities we have to thoughtfully match you.
We see value in bringing together likeminded singles and our events will of course, foster an environment of connection, but we want this service to feel like more than just any Friday night out.
Instead, we look forward to getting to know you and are excited at the chance to tell you “there’s someone you should meet.”